A New Community by Charles Shipp
May Enewsletter
When I was in high school, one of my friends told me to be sure to find a church when I went to college because having that community was so important during turbulent times. That advice stuck with me, and after I moved from Memphis to Auburn—seven hours away from home—I quickly realized how true it was. I found a church there, and that community really helped me get through college and grad school.
When I graduated and moved to Atlanta, I had to leave that support group. I felt a little lost—Atlanta is a huge city and I hardly knew anyone here. I found myself thinking “Where do I start? How do I start from scratch and find a new group of friends?”
About a week after I moved in, I got a message on Facebook from a fellow Episcopalian welcoming me to the city. Granted, I was a little weirded out by this. How did this person find me and know I had just moved here? But, I did feel welcome. Then, two days later, I got another email, this time from another Episcopalian about my age. By this point I was thinking there was some covert Episcopal spy network hunting me. Anyway, she told me she was Episcopalian and invited me to church the next Sunday. (God sometimes has a blunt way of getting through to people.) So, I went.
She invited me to meet a group of young adults for lunch after church, and presto: within a week of moving in, I had met about ten Episcopal young adults. It was amazing—instant community. I now had a lifeline in this incredibly big city. Those young adults from across the diocese are now my best friends in Atlanta.
Spring is a big time for moving. School is out, people are coming home for summer, graduating and finding a job. Wherever you end up, reach out and find a group. I know it helped me get my bearings here in Atlanta. The church is such an easy way to get rooted in a new place, be it Atlanta or somewhere else. Atlanta, and much of North Georgia, is full of 20s and 30s, and the Episcopal Diocese of Atlanta has some of the best young adult ministries in the country, both in our parishes and at the diocesan level. If you’re moving into the diocese, across the diocese, or to a neighboring diocese, DAYA is a great place to get hooked into to your new community and find some fantastic new friends. Check out the website at www.dofaya.org for information on how to get involved in diocese-wide events, and for links to individual parish young adult groups.
Peace in Christ,
Charles Shipp
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